When I Moved to Phoenix and How I live in Phoenix

geoff snyder model citizen phoenixWhen I moved to Phoenix, I drove from Naples, Florida with only some clothes, my book collection, and a laptop. I only ate almonds, subway sandwiches, and drank vitamin water during the trip.

Once I settled in with my parents at the age of 33, the first time living with them for over 15+ years, I decided to move forward with the bare essentials; minimalist lifestyle, per se.

The first contracts as an Independent Contractor I was rewarded with were ADOT (Arizona Department of Transportation), Lowes, and Limited Brands. I provided onsite technical hardware and software support for ADOT, and was a Project Lead for the latter two during store upgrades which consisted of complete infrastructure overhauls – down to the very last faceplate screw.

During the above time, I dedicated myself to live using the very minimum possible, as I felt that all years prior were materialistically driven. So, slept on a Yoga mat for about 6 months (which eventually got upgraded to a queen sized air mattress once I began having lady friends sleep over). I had one nice ceramic plate, one silver spoon, one silver fork, and one silver butter knife. When I needed cutting knives, I sprung about 7 bucks on a really shitty set of Ikea knives which I recently gifted to one of my friends at the condo in which I reside. His wife left him with his children without any warning and/or explanation; he deserves the knives more than me.

Over time, I invested in a French press because I can make better black coffee than most of our local coffee shops that charge 3-5 bucks for a cup. And the day I invested in a $25 rice cooker I felt like it was Christmas fucking morning!

I now live in a modest condo high rise in #CenPho (Central Phoenix) with a few nice things that I’ve worked my ass off for. I’m not into flashy things but I do appreciate quality, something that’s very important to me.

To wrap things up, I must give mad props to my Mom, my Dad, and my Bonus Dad (step-dad) for not handing things to me while I was a young child growing up. I didn’t understand why they wouldn’t buy me the Jordan shoes all my friends had, or the Mustang GT 5.0s that some of my buddies drove while I was slinging golf clubs as a caddy at Edgemont Country Club to pay for the school clothes that I wanted… to fit in and be ‘cool’. Now I get it. Today I get it and am wholeheartedly grateful for it and will be until my last breath.

I may have recently been fucked over by some corporate douchebags because of personal issues (two ‘executives’ who are screwing each other behind closed doors… my PI has confirmed this) and am currently cash poor because of it, but during my recent walks through the city that has given me so much to be thankful for, I have definitely discovered what the term “another person’s trash is another person’s treasure.” means. Completely. Even down to a stomped on, dirty cigarette. Yep… that actually happened last night and it was definitely a humbling moment in my life.

I feel that I’m in the best place I’ve ever been in my life, I’m happy, healthy, and content. And all I want to do is help others achieve their goals without being taken advantage of. Because THIS IS REAL LIFE. Does that make sense?

If you’ve read this and found any value within it, would you please be so kind to ‘share’ my story by using the Share Button, as well as ❤️ it up? It would be very humbling for me and I promise that I’ll be eternally grateful for it.

Nothing but Love and Respect,
g

Passive Promotion

Geoff Snyder is Intoxicated by Possibility

Geoff Snyder is Intoxicated by Possibility

I hope the following passive promotion below gives you insight into my drive, passion, and desire to find the next adventure. The world is full of haven’t stance and maybe I’m a person that can help you or maybe you are a person that can help me. Let’s see what we can do for the world.

I’m a guy who once spent 5 years as a recording industry executive (only because of sales under my watch for our market that had increased by a mere %10,300+ percent across 6 months and sustained a 93% retention rate for the 4 years in a market established across 20 years), from the school of Hard Knocks.

I’m a guy who somehow followed a technical ‘passion’ and opened a small, multi-office IT consulting firm (which cost me less than $100 to start) on a tropical island that focused on servicing healthcare, legal, and financial verticals and burned it down to the ground because I grew too big, too fast.

If any of the above is of any interest to you, I might be a guy you’d like to connect with.

With that said, my current professional pivot consists of the following: 9AM-5PM Monday thru Friday, 75% of my eggs are in a Technology basket. The other 25% of the eggs are in a Music Business basket. And with regard to my personal pivot, my 7PM-2AM focus shall continue with having fun networking with friends and colleagues, advising within the crypto vertical, commercial real estate, finding new gems in the city that has accepted me with open arms, Phoenix, as well as discovering new ways to volunteer within our communities.

I’m looking forward to the finish line and reflecting back on the people that touched my life and those that I’ve touched.

I’m here if you have any questions and always happy to help.

Cheers,
g

P.S. I’m a huge fan of the word ‘fuck’. Please fucking deal with it, it’s who I am. #coffeeme

2018 – 52 Books in 52 Weeks

Alright, so it came to my attention that this past December marked my 15th year of not owning a television. When I moved away from Detroit and began a new chapter in my life, I purged a lot of my belongings. TV, stereo equipment, furniture, clothes, a couple of businesses, real estate, 401k, and… a cat to name a few. I wanted to go into the next phase with as little as possible. Of course, I hung onto some childhood items, pictures, most of my books, CDs, and such.

Fast forward about 5-6 years and I’ll tell you what did it for me: the news. I spent some time with friends and their families who would usually have at least one TV on, be it background noise or for a game or something. I began realizing that I was continuously walking around life based on a lot of this background noise. Why? What does the next ‘news report’ really have to do with me? Will/Does it really improve my quality of life? Does all the overzealous commercial propaganda really need to be blasting me with its 30 seconds of magical ‘Buy Me Now’ strongarm? Nope.

During this same time, I myself going through a self-inflicted reinvention phase for about 12-18 months. I worked hard on resetting a lot of what I’ve ‘learned’ from mass media and it’s pop-culture child. Leadership Development and Team Building/Collaboration were on the top of my list for some reason… perhaps because of the current global economic state, political bantering, and some book series idea that I had outlined for a scholarship project I was working on.

While I did not own a TV, please don’t think I was some ultra weirdo and walked around shunning people who watched it. I still got together with friends on the weekends to catch a college football game somewhere or would find myself every now and then find myself catching highlights from the week’s sport’s recap.

So here were are in 2018 and I’ve realized that owning a TV does not obligate me to such noise. I’ve been streaming Netflix, Gaia, Amazon Primm, and such on my laptop for the past 4-5 years; and with so many a la carte streaming apps available now, being able to pay for an abundance of blackout hockey games hasn’t been easier!

52 in 52: To hold myself accountable and to make it as productive as I could think of, I decided that this would be the year I’d go ahead and replace the blank space my 32″ Sony Trinitron 1,815lb CRT TV once had in my life. But before I can, I need to read 52 books during the 52 weeks of this year. This post is a couple of months behind, but I’ve fortunately regained full access to my web domains and servers (that will be an entirely separate post) and decided to document the journey. If you want to check out what I’m reading, you can find this year’s recent reads over on my Instagram account; and I will be posting a review of each as I finish them. Just bear with me as I get caught up on the past 14 books or so!

3 Things I’m Doing to Improve My Platform

improved platformToday’s busy social space sometimes creates quite a challenge to filter out a lot of the noise. With so many “new” social media tools and app integrations, it would seem impossible for anybody new to the arena to gain ground.

Very recently, I was asked “Geoff, what are you doing to improve your platform?” This made me stop and think. Here is what I came up with:

Stay Proactive With Inquiries
Nobody like’s talking to a wall. When we reach out to somebody with a question or comment on one’s blog or Facebook page, we usually think others will respond. At the least, the person whose thread we area commenting in. I make it an effort to reply to every e-mail, blog comment, Facebook comment, tweet… etc. I’ve worked hard to position myself within focused marketplaces and still allow for my personal life to have its responsible presence. Because let’s face it… all business really is personal. The friendships accumulated along the journey.

Expanding Mediums
Anything I’ve signed up for in the years past, I’ve looked at closely to see how I can leverage it to help my position/brand. I also wanted to learn how it can help others accomplish what they want. If I can share with others what I’ve learned, and it helps them… my efforts have been worth it.

Maybe it’s because I work in tech that a lot of these things come easy to me. But I cannot express how many times I’ve seen others just start buying domains, hosting, themes, plugins, software, apps… etc, based on… nothing. Earlier this year, I was involved with someone very intelligent who bought up all kinds of stuff for their launch idea and clearly had no idea what they were doing. When it was brought up in conversation, their response was just that, “Well, I don’t know. I don’t know anything about this. I spent a bunch of money on all this. How was I supposed to know?” I was appalled when I heard this coming from someone who strongly advocates “Use Your Resources!” So, take your time and ask people who you know who have been down the road before. Otherwise, you’re just creating unnecessary work for yourself and others involved.

Again… take time to use your resources. You’ll find that the hidden community involved with content management, personal branding and positioning, and social media is filled with all kinds of great people!

Separating Personal and Professional Branding
This is somewhat of a new avenue for me. Several years ago when I decided to create my online presence by jumping from the “I’m a fly” approach, to the “I am the honey” direction, I learned that people wanted to know about me. They wanted to know a little about what makes me get up in the morning, opposed to just what I’ve done and what I’m doing during my day. Professionally. We want to learn about each other. I think this is just human nature. I always enjoy connecting with somebody and then learn what I can about them through their social media streams. And then when it comes time for me to meet them, the level of accuracy (or lack there of) is always rewarding. It helps me realize that my perception and interpretation skills are honed well.

So, creating a personal and professional avenue for both entities helps allow marketability. I believe if it’s done right, they can both help each other and greater results will occur. I’m sure I’ll be following up with this later. So, that’s it for now. I’ll leave this post by asking you this simple question:

What are you currently doing to enhance your online presence and how is it helping you daily?

Write Your Own Prescription For Health And Happiness

prescription for happinessHave you ever said to yourself “I wish THEY made a pill for that?” If so, you’re not alone. In fact, you’re on board with about 95% of the population. But, the fact of the matter is that “the pill” has always been there, right in front of you the entire time.

I am convinced that 95% of all health problems and “need” for medication stem from lack of nutritional upkeep via healthy diet, proper sleeping habits, and exercise. But here is the kicker… each one of these depends on the other. You can eat like the biggest health nut on the planet, but if you’re not getting enough exercise and/or sleep, it’s not going to have the same effect as if it was balanced by the others.

“You are the sum of what you consume. Be careful what you feed yourself with; physically and mentally.”

I’m amazed at the number of people who are convinced that what they hear on the radio and see on their TVs is 100% accurate. I haven’t owned a TV for over 10 years and since I’ve moved to Phoenix, which was almost two years ago, I’ve yet to turn my radio on.

The amount of “noise” is sickening. I think it was Donald Trump who said: “I’d rather not be informed at all than to be misinformed.” Think of all the people you know who base their life on “other’s” lifestyle. Or worse yet, watching them to continuously watch Hollywood fed fairy tales and expect for their friends and family to follow suit. Sure, it’s an industry and a business but it’s not a healthy one. We all have the same amount of time, so consider how much of it you spend reading or watching about “bath salts” and “child abductions” or “political spin doctors.” Consider allotting that time reading a good book about world history, or the amazing wonders of insulin and how our bodies function properly. Or perhaps spend some time at a local community center or church. Better yet, spend the time with the people that you love, whether it’s in person, on the phone, or via video conference.

When you find yourself being unhappy with yourself, that’s the perfect time to love those who mean the most to you even more.

How Is Trust Built?

how trust is built“Trust is a peculiar resource; it is built rather than depleted by use.” ~ Unknown

To build trust, we must use our self-awareness and self-management skills which we’ve acquired over time. Determining the level of trust we need to cultivate depends on the connection which we identify with others. For example, the barista who makes my coffee drink gets a different level of commitment to trust with me that the woman I share my life with. The project manager or resource coordinator of a business account gets a different level of commitment than a field engineer does. Now, none of these holds more or less value, simply some don’t require as much attention as others. It really comes down to focus and priority.

By using social awareness skills, we need to ask others what needs to happen to increase the current level of trust. Being sure to actually listen to the answer. This helps build trust, and overall deepens the relationship.

Here are few key points I’ve found that aid in building trust:

1. Open Communication – The willingness to share ourselves and what is important to us with others often helps establish a common understanding. If done honestly and wholeheartedly, the driving force of positive actions will allow for a foundation to be created, one in which can be used for continued growth.

2. Consistency in Words, Actions, and Behavior – Following through with what we say we are going to do is a huge part of building trust. When we commit to something, regardless of size, it’s still a commitment and must be followed through in order for it to have any value. Whether it be following through with a return phone call, arriving on time for dinner plans, meeting a school/work related deadline, or planning long term family goals. Any of these can “make or break” a friendship/relationship. No matter what size the commitment, no matter what level of importance, what we say to others as to what we’re going to do, it’s up to us to follow through. Otherwise, we can’t be taken seriously. We eventually establish a characteristic with others that we are “true to our word(s)” and display respect and integrity, or allow for ourselves to be seen as one who cannot be trusted, and often at times considered a liar. This is a very difficult place to be in and most often requires a deep look in the mirror. Otherwise, we’ll never be able to repair what we’ve damaged.

3. Avoid Giving Mixed Signals – How we communicate, whether it be via the written word, spoken word– consisting of the tone of voice, and/or body language – determine the level of accuracy which others will perceive us. The signals we send to the people in our relationships are made through proactive conversation and feedback. When we express feelings, we express the truth. More often than not, these expressions are raised to a heightened level through our reactions and body language, regardless of the words we choose. In a world that is saturated by text messaging, which is usually limited to 140 characters or less, our “on the fly” lifestyles that we’ve adapted in the fast paced and fairly disconnected society, it seems that we rarely establish an accurate means of dialogue. I’ve seen some of the world’s best authors and speakers completely misconceived due to a single letter typo, improper punctuation, or quick witted answer.

Something to consider: People will always trust what they see over what they hear. Actions speak louder than words… so focus on following through with everything you commit to. Otherwise, why bother?